You know, many people ask me how I can be in a long distance relationship and still consider it a real relationship. WELL to all you skeptics, imagine every relationship you've ever been in and remove the physical aspect of it. How many nights did you stay up late and just talk to one another? How many letters did you send to each other? Did you cherish and take advantage of every minute you were next to each other? Did you really get to know the other person (their background, family life, likes/dislikes, etc) or were you too distracted with fooling around? Just imagine a relationship where there's no drama or question of whether you really love one another, a relationship where you truly know the person and can communicate anything because you realize when an argument is bullshit or real and when it's time to just suck it up and pay attention to how committed you are.
Doesn't sound so bad now, does it?
I mean, don't get me wrong. It's miserable not being able to hold him every night and breathe in his scent. But at least I am constantly reminded of why I love him and how much he means to me. Because time and time again I realize it's all worth it. I know it's real and he knows it's real and that's all the reality I need (:
Like one lovely miss rachel dejesus pointed out: I'm too busy thinkin about my baby
3 comments:
teared up :( happy eleven <3
Didn't mean for that to happen :/
love you girl
trust that I know what you're going through <3
i love how much you love this guy. it makes me happy.
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